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September 11, 2005

Really Good Questions (Part I)
John 13-14

John’s Gospel alone includes Jesus’ intimate prayer to His Father (John 17.) Prior to His deep conversation with the Father about His disciples, Jesus spent some time talking to His disciples about the Father, suggesting six “Really Good Questions.”

1. Who am I? (John 13)
2. Where is my home? (John 14:1-6)
3. Who is He? (John 14:7-15)
4. How am I helped? (John 14:16-31)
5. What is the purpose? (John 15:1-17)
6. Who are my friends? (John 15:18 - 16:4) 

I have been doing some advance work and study in the 17th chapter of John’s Gospel. This is an entire chapter devoted to a deep, intimate prayer between Jesus and His Father. It is an amazing prayer where the Son of God within, shall we say, minutes prior to His betrayal and arrest, is talking to God. He is sharing His heart. He is saying things that really matter and the disciples are listening. The prayer certainly is between Jesus and God but in large measure it is for the benefit of those disciples, who are listening.

Jesus didn’t just sit down and say, “I think now I’ll pray my John 17 high-priestly prayer so everybody be quiet.” He didn’t do that. Prior to that, beginning in John 13 through 16 He wraps up 3 to 4 years of time with these disciples by telling them things that matter. He is preparing them for the prayer.

I have entitled John 17 very simply, “What Jesus Wants.” Jesus goes to the Father in John 17 and tells Him what He wants. What amazes me about that prayer is the depth to which Jesus goes by saying, “Father, I want these people.” He expresses the depth of His love and compassion and attachment for that band of followers of His; who to this point have not given a whole lot of evidence of being worth it.  He wants them, how He is attached to them, devoted to them and committed to them.

For our part, however, we are not going to go to John 17 today. We need to be prepped first. We need to be ready for the prayer, just as these guys were. He talked to them about God in chapters 13, 14, 15, and 16. In chapter 17 He talks to God about them.

We are going to ask six questions, the answers to which are found in the verses we are going to explore. The Bible says faith comes by hearing the Word of God. There is a mechanism built into it that somehow has a spiritual connection. Jesus taught them in these four chapters, 13 through 16. Were they listening?  When I read those chapters and look at the highlights in them, the themes that surface,   I see how amazingly like the themes of chapter 17 they are, so I ask myself, “Am I listening? Are my ears on? Do I have, in Jesus’ words, ears to hear? Were they ready for what was coming? Were they listening? Are we?”

1. Who am I? (John 13)

John is what we might call a lopsided gospel because the last week of Jesus’ life takes up almost half the book. It begins in chapter 12. We are going to begin in chapter 13 and ask and address the very first question that suggests itself. We are asking the question. I am asking the question. This is a first person thing, “Who am I?” Jesus wants these guys to understand something about Himself, yes, but also about themselves. “Do you understand who you are? Do I understand who I am?”

Who am I? The 13th chapter will address that. My answer, according to these verses -- I am someone in serious, dire, critical spiritual need. I need Him at a level I cannot even truly grasp. If you ask that question of most folks in the flesh, “Who am I?”

I’m someone, who can handle it. I’m someone, who can figure it out. I’m someone, who deserves it. And I’ll be alright on my own.” We are natural humanists.

Who am I? I am someone in serious, dire, critical, spiritual need. First of all, I am resistant to servant hood.

John 13
1Now before the Feast of  the Passover, Jesus knowing that His hour had come that He would depart out of this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end.
2During supper, the devil having already put into the heart of  Judas Iscariot, the son of Simon, to betray Him,
3Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands, and that He had come forth from God and was going back to God,

4got up from supper, and laid aside His garments; and taking a towel, He girded Himself.

5Then He poured water into the basin, and began to wash the disciples' feet and to wipe them with the towel with which He was girded.

Jesus, in this unprecedented moment, knows exactly what is coming. He knows what the devil is doing with Judas. He knows what happens when he heads to the garden. He knows where it is going. What does He do? He assumes the role of a servant. He has been their rabbi, their teacher, their leader, their guide, their authority, and now He is their servant.

They are a bit resistant. It is interesting if we compare Gospels. In Luke 22 and Mark 10 the disciples had been having a conversation about which of them was the greatest. It was in this context, that James and John and their mother came to Jesus and said we really want to be prominent in your kingdom. We really think we deserve these positions of authority and power. Jesus, in response to that, girds Himself with a towel and washes their feet. This is an object lesson of servant hood, which will help them understand that the difference between them and Him is vast. He is, according to Isaiah 53, the suffering servant Messiah. He demonstrates it for them here.

Who am I? First of all, I am resistant to servant hood. Secondly, I need to be cleansed.

6So He came to Simon Peter. He said to Him, "Lord, do You wash my feet?"
7Jesus answered and said to him, "What I do you do not realize now, but you will understand hereafter."
8Peter said to Him, "Never shall You wash my feet!"

 He is adamant about that, agitated and saying no, Jesus, you are my Lord, you don’t wash my feet because you are the master. I am the servant.”

Jesus answered him, "If I do not wash you, you have no part with Me."

Jesus takes the initiative to do the cleansing. “You need to be cleansed,” He is telling them. Then He goes on to say, if you are right with Me from a spiritual standpoint you are washed. You need a little touchup every now and then, but you are fine. The point of the object lesson, though, is who does the cleansing and who needs it. Jesus does it and we need it.

There are a couple scripture passages that underscore this. One is in I Corinthians. The church in Corinth, by the way, was something of a wreck. Paul, who did not pull any punches, is chewing out these people who are patently immoral and claiming that God is OK with it. It is one thing to be immoral and another to say God thinks it is fine. They were wrong on two counts.

I Corinthians 6
9Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,
10nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.
11Such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.

You had problems and somebody fixed you. You didn’t do it. Someone else did.

Titus 3:3-6
3For we also once were foolish ourselves, disobedient, deceived, enslaved to various lusts and pleasures, spending our life in malice and envy, hateful, hating one another.
4But when the kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind appeared,
5He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit,
6whom He poured out upon us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior,

Who am I? I need to be cleansed. I cannot do it. Only He can do it. The disciples have heard this before. He is telling them again. You don’t have it in yourselves to fix the problem. It has to be taken care of by the One who can -- and that is God.

I also tend, therefore, to overestimate my own spiritual ability. “I am actually not too bad a guy.” Judas didn’t realize how spiritually vulnerable he really is. He has tagged along with Jesus. He has been given responsibility. He has been a part of the going out two-by-two, the casting out the devils, and so forth. He has seen the power, been a part of it. But in verse 2, the devil has put something in his heart. Further down, in verse 27, the devil enters him and Jesus dismisses him to go off and begin the betrayal process. He is spiritually vulnerable.  Peter thought he was OK. Peter is an interesting study. Jesus tells them what is going to come. He is going to be betrayed and they all say, “Who would do such a thing?” They look around among their own number. Peter says to John, “See what you can find out. Who is going to be the bad guy?” We all are the bad guy.

36Simon Peter said to Him, "Lord, where are You going?" Jesus answered, "Where I go, you cannot follow Me now; but you will follow later."

Let’s pause a moment and remind ourselves who Peter is. Peter walked on water. Peter’s mother-in-law was healed. Peter was on the Mount of Transfiguration. Front row seat to the glory of God. Peter is first among equals, primus inter pares, according to the theologians. Peter is the man.

37Peter said to Him, "Lord, why can I not follow You right now? I will lay down my life for You."
38Jesus answered, "Will you lay down your life for Me? Truly, truly, I say to you, a rooster will not crow until you deny Me three times.

I ask myself, what is worse -- Judas Iscariot betraying Him or apostle Peter denying Him? I would imagine from the consequential standpoint we may have some differences, but aren’t we dealing with a human heart that overestimates itself spiritually in either case? Later, Judas is full of remorse, takes his own life. Later, Peter bawls in the garden when, with a curse, he denies knowing Jesus. He calls curses on himself and he swears an oath that he doesn’t know Him.

So who has the problem here? Later on in John’s gospel, they show up to arrest Jesus, “all the disciples left him and fled.” Who has the problem? Who overestimates their spiritual ability? I can remember when I had been a Christian a little over two years. I had the Christian thing down. I was involved with a group of exuberant young, single, college-age people. We were on fire for Jesus. We decided one summer that since we had all these Bible studies, we just knew so much, and things were going so well that we should have a bonfire at the beach. We’ll go down there, make a big fire, and we’ll have guitars and sing, and when people ask us, “What are you doing?” we’ll share Jesus with them.

So we go down to the beach, pile up wood, make a fire, drag out the guitars and sing “For Those Tears I Died.” We’re doing all this “very spiritual stuff.” All was on a roll until a guy, who I had gone to high school with, walked up and I couldn’t say a word. I had generated all my own spiritual momentum. This was my idea, my doing, my strength, my show, probably for me. Overestimate spiritual ability -- it’s not that hard to do.

I also continually need to be taught or reminded of the basics of the faith.

34"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another.
35"By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another."

They had just been discussing which one of them is the greatest. He washes their feet and says put the other guy first. Please don’t think this is the first time they have heard it. It’s certainly not the first time we have heard it. They had been with Jesus now for 3 to 4 years. They had heard it before around lots of campfires, in lots of Bible studies, lots of debates and lots of discussions.  He is telling them again.

Do we need to hear this again -- the basics of the faith? What is it to be a Christian? Read your Bible, pray every day, give your heart to Jesus, a lot of things. But Jesus says if you want to look like Me, if you want to reflect My glory, if you want to draw people to the Father -- love one another.

I suspect that learning that and doing that will probably take a lifetime. So we, like they, continually need to be taught the basics.

Finally, Who Am I? -- I am the object of Jesus’ deep, unfailing love. With all that was said, my bloated sense of spirituality, my need to be cleansed, my resistance to servant hood, my forgetfulness of the basics -- in spite of all that, I am the object of His deep, unfailing love.

I remind you of verse 1.

1Now before the Feast of   the Passover, Jesus knowing that His hour had come that He would depart out of this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end.

Jesus knows everything about the situation. This is the pivot point of human history in a spiritual sense. He is going to the cross to make the payment and He knows it. He is ready to go back to the Father. He is getting ready to go home, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them right down to the end. Some translations indicate “He loved them with an eternal love.” This is the paradox of the Christian faith -- undeserved, unmerited, may I say ill-merited, love from God in spite of all. Absolutely amazing!

He loves them to the end. He does not walk them through this string of experiences and say “You forgot the basics. You’re out.” Or, “You have an inflated view of your spirituality. I’m done with you.”  You can’t make a stronger human statement than the one Peter made when he denied Jesus. When Peter meets Jesus on the shore of the Sea of Galilee and Jesus didn’t come at him with “OK, Peter, if you will just memorize these verses, and jump through these hoops, and share the gospel with five different people, then I’ll take you back.” He just loves him to the end. That needs to sink in to you and me. 

Question 1 - who am I? Someone in serious, dire, critical spiritual need who is loved by Jesus.

 2. Where is my home? (John 14:1-6)

1"Do not let your heart be troubled; believe in God, believe also in Me.
2"In My Father's house are many dwelling places; if it were not so, I would have told you; for I go to prepare a place for you.
3"If I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself, that where I am, there you may be also.
4"And you know the way where I am going."
5 Thomas said to Him, "Lord, we do not know where You are going, how do we know the way?"
6Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.

My home is somewhere I have never been. In the 14th chapter, Jesus talks about His Father’s house where there are many dwelling places. That is where He is going. That is where He is going to come fetch them to live. Verse 4:

4"And you know the way where I am going."

I love Thomas. He says things that I am thinking. His candor is very refreshing and I have a hunch he speaks for these other guys. If there is ever anything that they are afraid to ask they probably say, “Let Thomas.”

5 Thomas said to Him, "Lord, we do not know where You are going, how do we know the way?"

We’ve never been to heaven before. We can’t identify with heaven. We can’t relate to the place. We’ve never been there; how can we possibly know the way? It’s a big question because home is a big deal. If you don’t think so, think of it on a large scale. A few weeks ago, when the few Israeli settlers, who were in the city of Gaza, were removed from their homes, they went kicking and screaming, why? It was their home. Perhaps if we were dragged from our homes, we would kick and scream too because home tends to be a precious place. In New Orleans there are many people, who are refusing to leave their home. Why? Because it is home and it represents perhaps for many the only security they can get a handle on.

On a local scale, there are probably half a dozen families, in this fellowship, dealing with a new home, either finding one or building one. A lot goes into it, a lot of anticipation, a lot of planning, a lot of dreaming. We anticipate it and we live in it. We build memories there. Our children grow there. We sometimes put marks on the walls to document their height. Joy and laughter happen there. It smells good there. We are comfortable there. We build security there. We have memories there. It’s a huge issue. Jesus is saying “My home is in heaven. I’m not from here. I’m going home. And once I get there, I’m going to begin a building project and I am bringing you with me.”

Where is my home? It’s somewhere I’ve never been. It’s a place in heaven. It’s where Jesus is. We tend to think our home, whether it is a physical structure on a piece of ground or whether it’s a culture to which we are accustomed, we tend to lock in here. That’s why Thomas’ question reflects our own. How can we possible imagine a heavenly home?

Jesus as much as says you are going to need to trust me with this. I am going to prepare a place for you, and then I am coming back. His leaving is literal and physical. His return is literal and physical. There is no doubt in my mind, that what He does in the interim is going to be literal and physical. He is going to prepare a place for us. It took God six days to create all of the splendor we see. It was evening and it was morning. Evening and morning constitute a day.

He has been working on our home for 2,000 years. I bet it is going to be nice. It’s going to be unspeakably, unimaginably and undeservedly wonderful for us and that’s where it is all going. He is trying to get His disciples to think, to plan, to prioritize in terms of eternity. This is temporary. This is preparation. That is real. That is forever. He has worked on them in that regard for years now, trying to get them to understand that there is an eternity out there that means considerably more than anything we can lock into here. He is building custom homes in accordance with His floor plan.

He says in my Father’s house are many mansions. The model here is a huge mansion with lots of apartments. It is going to be owned by One; that is God, and we all get to live there. It will be like a condo, so someone else can do the lawn work.  And He says I’m coming back and I’m going to take you to be with me so that where I am there you may be also. Do you see how badly Jesus wants His people with Him? He is committed. His love is unfailing. He loves us to the end. When we get to His prayer in John 17 we will see how profoundly in love with His people He is and how He will have us with Him. He will have places prepared for us. We are going. He wants us to be with Him. Amazing.

Where is my home? Somewhere I have never been, but Jesus is there and He will take me there.

3. Who is He? (John 14:7-15)

He comes back with His disciples to discuss a little bit about who He really is. There were many itinerant rabbis in first century Palestine and they would have a following of people. These particular individuals were convinced that they were right and that they were unique. But they did not yet make the heaven connection with Him. He is working on it. Who is He? As Josh McDowell’s book says, He is certainly more than a carpenter. He is the Messiah, the anointed deliverer, the Son of God and He is One with the Father in Heaven.

This is where it gets a little bit difficult for me because He, Jesus, is going to identify Himself with a Father in Heaven, who we have never seen, nor can we. God, the Father and His Son, Jesus, have been misunderstood by people for centuries. For 2,000 years, people have tried to figure out God and who He is, maybe what He looks like, and His Son, Jesus and their true identity, perhaps how they relate to one another. It’s interesting how that works. In the Old Testament, God is held forth in contrast to idols. Idols can be seen and felt and thrown. God is saying, “I’m not like that. I cannot be seen.” There is no such thing as visually appropriating God in His essence. According to the prophet He dwells in unspeakable light. He is Spirit. He cannot be seen.

He makes His presence known in the Old Testament through various ways but He always seems to keep a personal distance. He was in the Garden with Adam and Eve. That was good, but after that we catch glimpses, if you will, of God the Father. We catch Him in a vision perhaps, like the one Jacob had with the ladder. Or we hear His voice. We don’t see Him. Perhaps there is a dream, a prophet, a person, who can tell us what God is saying.

Sometimes maybe we can see Him in the elements when there is thunder and lightning as on Mount Sinai, but that’s not really God. That’s just how He is making His presence known.   So there has always been, “I wonder what He looks like.” It got to Moses after a while and he said, “God, I want to see your glory. I would like to see your face. I want to first hand appreciate you.” God hides him in a rock and just gives him a glimpse of the wake in His train because no one can see God. It’s not a doable thing, despite people’s best efforts. Even Moses’ request was only partially fulfilled.

Who is He? People, down through the years, have had their own answers to this sort of thing. In our day it sounds something like, “My God is . . . “ Or “My God this” or “My God that.” We get so easily confused here. Jesus wanted the disciples to understand something about God. He wanted them to be able to get a handle on God, some sort of a tangible appreciation of God so that they could have a link to heaven that they would really need and understand.

God, in the Old Testament, was very consistent with His law and His compassion and His patience but the personal side -- what does He look like?  This remains a question. So we come to Jesus. Jesus shows up. Let’s look at a couple Bible verses that will help. In Colossians 1, speaking of Jesus and how wonderful He is, the apostle writes this:

Colossians 1:15
He (Jesus) is the image of the invisible God. He is the firstborn of all creation.

He is the most critical being ever to enter the created world. He is the image of the invisible God. That word “image” is the same word that is used in speaking of minting a coin. That is not George Washington on the coin, it is his image. If you take the coin and press it in soft clay and remove the coin you will see the image there in the clay. This is the idea. There is nothing about God that Jesus does not represent. Jesus brings us the image of the Father.  

In Hebrews 1:3 a little more detail is provided by the apostle.

Hebrews 1:3
And He is the radiance of His glory and the exact representation of His nature, and upholds all things by the word of His power When He had made purification of sins, He sat down at the right hand of the Majesty on high,

A rough illustration would be those fantasy shows about the invisible man. No one can see him until one of the Three Stooges dumps paint on him. He cannot be seen in his essence, but his image is available, the pure, exact, accurate image of the Father. Jesus is telling them you don’t need to look any further than Me. God is Spirit and unapproachable light. Jesus makes Him known in 3-D without the glasses.

Misunderstanding still prevails. If we were to take a poll, just be brutally honest, and  when I suggest God the Father, what do you think? I’ll bet a lot of us conjure up a similar “God the Father.” We have to fill that in with something, don’t we? So a lot of folks think of a kindly, white haired, big beard, grandfatherly, benevolently oriented being in the clouds. We have to think of something so we tend think maybe of something out of those Lord of the Rings movies with the long white beard, very wise. And there, somewhere, we can go very wrong.

We think of a benign Santa perhaps, and others may think perhaps more of a mean dictator. Whatever your image is, it’s wrong because God in His purity and in His essence doesn’t lend Himself to images, which is why He was always really down on idolatry. That’s why Jesus came.

I’m going to share with you what to me is a liberating truth. I no longer have to imagine this cosmic being and I believe that’s what the Bible would have me do. I believe the Bible is saying if you want to ponder the Father, which you cannot do, just remember Jesus. He took on flesh and blood so that we would have an accurate representation of the Father and we could know Him. If we imagine the Father, we are wrong. Sometimes we imagine Jesus -- a great moral teacher, a prophet, a good man, a radical revolutionary. We are wrong. So frequently people are wrong about that. Some say “Son of God” without even knowing what it means. People will say, “I know who Jesus was, He was the Son of God,” without having a clue what the implications of that are. He is God’s incarnate Messiah. He is the exact representation of the Father in flesh and blood. He went to a cross and paid your and my spiritual and moral debt. That’s who Jesus is. He did it in history. He did it in fact. He did it physically. He did it in His blood.

We must be right on that score. Here is our God. He is Jesus, the Messiah. Not who He is to you or to me. That doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter what I think about Jesus. It doesn’t matter if I think there is a train coming down the track either. If it hits me, it’s coming down the tracks whether I think it is or not. The bottom line is what is true. What’s true is Jesus is God in the flesh and He paid for our sins. He says if you want to go to Heaven with Me, you will put all your trust only in Me. Nothing more. Nothing less. That’s what is true. We can opt whether we care to embrace what is true. That’s up to us, but we will deal with truth where it stands.

5 Thomas said to Him, "Lord, we do not know where You are going, how do we know the way?"
6Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.

I wonder about His tone of voice there. “I am the way. I am the truth and the life.” You want to go to Heaven? You must put all your trust in Me alone. Easy? Perhaps not. Simple? Refreshingly so.

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Jim Carlson 2005, Lone Rock Bible Church, Stevensville Montana, USA